Recently my eldest son joined the Army. In doing so, he has changed the way that we communicate, at least while he is in BCT (or for us older folk – Boot Camp). You see he cannot have his cell phone. Which is smart since they are going on manuvers, keeps it from getting stolen as well. He needs to focus on getting the very best training he can and having me call him on his cell phone would definately be a distraction.
Thus our communication has been slowed down to the speed of the Post Office. When I was in Boot Camp, it was basically the same thing. There were times when we were allowed to make phone calls at the pay phone banks, but it was 3-4 times during our whole training cycle, if that. I also remember that the local phone company set up a series of temporary “rooms” where you could go in and call your loved ones and pay 30-40 dollars and hour (or more) to get quiet, private calls and not have to have some dude banging on the phone booth door trying to get you off of the phone so they could get on it.
I’ve been trying to send him a letter each and every day. It doesn’t always work out, but I’ve got supplies to help me out now. I purchased a roll of ‘forever’ stamps… that’s 100 to a roll, and I have a stack of pre-addressed envelopes that I have sitting at my desk just waiting for the letters to be stuffed in them and mailed. He told me when got to his mom’s in Colorado for his break that he had gotten 7 letters in the prior 5 days. Also that it takes about 3 days to get from San Diego to Columbia South Carolina. Which is pretty good. I thought it would take upwards of 7-10 days to make it over there. At least he’s getting the mail I’ve been sending.
It’s just so weird having what amounts to a one-way conversation, unless I get mail from him prior to sending the mail. And so far, I’ve only received 3 letters from him. However he tells me that he’s written at least 30. I gave him some crap about making sure to seal the envelope and to put a stamp on it. He didn’t laugh, but that’s ok… I’m not always as funny as I think I am. But I think I hit it on the mark most of the time.
So, I’m trying to get used to this Glacial type of communication and it’s not easy. I have a problem with coming up with new stuff to talk about when I don’t have any input. At least his company in the Army has a facebook fan page that they post pictures on, so I get some chances to see my Son training. In fact he said that he knows he got in front of the camera a number of times during recent training events, such as the gas chamber, which I am going to post right here:
Fun stuff eh? Well I actually found the picture on facebook and then wrote to him a letter and inserted the image in the letter. I knew that he most likely wouldn’t have seen this image until after boot, or BCT… so I wanted to share it with him.
So, I will continue to work on communicating at the ‘speed of post’ which is certainly not the speed of light.
Actually I think that letter writing is a fading thing. I know that my Mother-n-law and her brother-n-law write letters to each other, you see my mother-n-law is almost 88, and my ‘uncle-n-law’ is in his early 80′s. He has email and is fairly comfortable using his computer. My mother-n-law on the other hand isn’t that good with technology, and had given up on using a computer. So she writes letters and that still works great! More people should write letters, it’s a great way to express yourself and get points across. And on the other hand it will help keep the post office open and keep the cost of postage down.
With that I think I’m going to print out this post and mail it to my son in South Carolina. Granted he’s not there, but I want to make sure he has something to read when he returns there.
Keep writing letters!!! Don’t let the practice dissapear!









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